Unseen Forces
Invisible Forces That Shape Your Experience at Work
By Danny Gutknecht
What do believe about work? What do you tell yourself about your boss? How do the stories you write make you feel?
If you find yourself constantly unhappy, irritated or not feeling appreciated enough to go the extra mile—it’s not because you’re not smart enough, not disciplined enough, or because of your boss. Most of the time, it’s because you’re playing by rules you didn’t even choose—rules built from invisible models you’ve been carrying your whole life. And until you see them, you’ll keep losing a game or stay in a rut.
What happens when we challenge our own assumptions? What if your biggest obstacle at work isn’t lack of discipline or motivation—but an invisible belief that you didn’t even realize was shaping your actions?
Let’s say you believe, deep down, that you’re not that motivated. If that’s your narrative, then soon your attitudes and feelings will adhere to this narrative and before long, everything gets interpreted through that lens. You pull off a big project? “Well, that was just luck.” You struggle to focus? “See, I’m lazy.” Even success doesn’t change the model—it just gets rewritten as an exception to the rule.
Take productivity. The hidden narrative and attitude many people have is:
- Productivity = hard, frustrating, unnatural
- Work = a grind
- Effort = exhausting
No wonder so many people can’t sustain high performance. It’s challenging to try to force ourselves to do something we subconsciously see as painful.
And these aren’t just narratives we consciously agree with; they’re deeply embedded assumptions built from past experiences - they are models. And the trickiest part? They operate in the background, filtering everything we see and do.
Famous Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung once said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
So, what happens if you start looking for these limiting models? What if you could change, the easiest models in your life? If we see productivity as engaging, rewarding, even fun – work might not drain you—but could energize you? You might, stand out. You might answer the calling you chose to pursue.
Let’s be clear, this article is only using productivity as an example because we are talking about work. But really, this is about your life. Your time, and leaning into the limited time we have.
The real work isn’t your job, it’s your experience. A career isn’t about reaching the finish line. It’s about seeing how much of yourself you’re willing to bring to the work before it’s done. That’s how you change and grow, that’s how you change the world – it starts with yourself.
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